Here are some resources for partners.
Further Reading References
There are several excellent books for partners of cross-dressers in our library:
Advantages of having a cross-dressing husband
For a light-hearted view of the subject, read this list of 45 reasons why having a cross-dresser as a husband can be an advantage:
Why Cross-dressers lie
Anger is one of the most common reactions partners have when they find out their man is a cross-dresser. Anger at having been deceived for so long. In this insightful article, one wife explains why.